How to Really Attract a Loving Relationship
Are you desperately longing to find that special someone? Such “desperate longing” can push them away versus attract them towards you. When you have a solid, loving relationship with you, people sense that peace, joy, and confidence which attracts them to you.
But many people don’t really know how to be a friend to themselves. True friendship is about kindness and reciprocity, support and authentic love.
So, I’m sharing Martha Beck’s friendship facts. Speak aloud the statements that follow each fact. If you can say these things to yourself and mean them, you can be your own pal.
Friendship Fact: Real friends delight in your happiness.
Say to Yourself: “I want to help you have great adventures, rest when you’re tired and make every experience better.”
Friendship Fact: Real friends care about what’s happening to you.
Say to Yourself: “What’s going on with you? How do you feel about it? I want to hear everything!”
Friendship Fact: Real friends don’t try to live your life for you.
Say to Yourself: “I really care when you’re hurting, but I know you’ll be all right in the end. I have faith in you.”
Friendship Fact: If you’re in dangerous territory, real friends will tell you.
Say to Yourself: “Is your gut saying that something doesn’t feel right? Respect that. I do.”
Friendship Fact: Real friends like just being with you; they don’t need you to entertain them.
Say to yourself: “You don’t have to earn my friendship. Just be yourself.”
Practice this every day for 40 days. It’s a short time to achieve huge benefits.
To prepare, start with our NEW FREE Video over to the right…a 3-minute relaxation which is perfect for setting the foundation for an open, heartfelt communication and relationship.